:::26-06-05::
# 11.45am #
Saturday morning, while watching TV suddenly i got a phone call from my father..
ayah: Assalamualaikum..hello..abang..
me : Waalaikumsalam..Haa..ayah..ada apa? tiba2 call pagi2 ni..
ayah: abang bawak bertenang ye..bawak banyak2 bersabar..ade berita tak baik sket..
me : ??? kenapa?
ayah : abang.. mak teh baru je meninggal. abang nak balik ke?
me : errr... hmmm.. abang balik..abang balik...adik dah tau?
ayah : awak balik dengan sapa? nanti ayah call dia..tadi ayah call x dapat..
me : haa takpe..nanti abg try call dia..
ayah : ok..abang nak balik bila?
me : abang balik terus lepas ni, lepas mandi, pack barang, amik adik then terus balik jb la kot..
ayah : ok..abang balik terus ke jb eh..
me : hmm..ok.
ayah : bye
me : bye..
Begitulah lebih kurang conversation between me and my dad..
Then, right after the conversation, i got a sms from my cousin - AF .. saying that his mom just passed away at 11.45am..after struggling from a stroke around 6am.. For a while, i'm speechless...
Aku tak tau dari mana dtgnye kekuatan...sedikit pun aku tak menitiskan air mata ketika itu... yg aku sedar, aku harus terima berita yg baru aku dapat ini dgn hati yang tenang dan redha....sedikit sebanyak.. aku rase bersyukur...berakhir sudah segala keperitan, kesakitan dan kepayahan mak teh dlm usaha dia cuba dan terus mencuba mengubati penyakit yang dialaminya sejak sekian lama...
Bagi aku, mak teh seorang wanita yg cekal dan tabah walaupun dilanda berbagai-bagai dugaan dan rintangan dari segi emosi, jiwa dan fizikal...namun dia tetap kuat dan sentiasa redha walaupun ada ketika dia sedikit kecewa dengan apa jua yg diperlakukan keatasnya....
Aku masih ingat..sewaktu dia masih sihat... dia seorang yang cukup pemurah dan baik hati... sebagai anak sedara...dan mana2 sedara-mara beliau sekalipun...sebut sahaja nak makan apa...memang dia akan masakkan segala masakan yg diminta ..jarang sekali dia menghampakan permintaan sesiapa..esp. dr anak2 sedara yg dianggap mcm anak sendri juga...which is me and my sister....pantang kalau kami balik ke jb, rumah mak teh takkan terlepas dr persinggahan....dan setiap kali nak balik..kitaorg akan call bgtau kitaorg nak dtg siap disertakan list menu-menu makanan yg kitaorg nak dia masakkan.....oh my goshh..i'm really miss those memories......oh ye..she's the best "chef" in our family ..selain my uncle tam and my father.. :) tapi segalanya kini...semuanya hanya tinggal dalam kenangan..
# 1pm #
Aku bertolak dari kuala Lumpur dekat pukul 1 tghari, terus fetch adik kat bangi then terusheading to JB. Sampai di JB, dekat pukul 5 ptg. Waktu itu, jenazahnya baru sahaja selesai disembahyangkan. Sayang..aku tak dapat nak menatap wajahnya buat kali terakhir…namun aku sempat mengiringi permergiannya ke sebuah tempat yg hakiki dan pasti dan melihat sendiri dia dikuburkan dan ditalkinkan… Saat talking dibacakan, hatiku terasa sebak..dan air mata bergenang….aku hanya mampu memandang dr suatu sudut sehingga semuanya selesai….
Setelah segalanya selesai, aku hampiri pusaranya…aku duduk bertinggung , memperbetulkan segala isi tanah disekitarnya dan berdoa agar rohnya tenteram dan ditempatkan bersama-sama orang yang beriman dan soleh…insyaAllah… .Hanya doa sahaja yg dapat aku panjatkan buat Mak Teh …
# 9pm #
Sebelah malamnya, diadakan sebuah majlis tahlil untuknya…dan majlis ini akan dijalankan 3 hari berturut-turut selepas solat isya’..
Dan ketika aku menulis catatan ini.. majlis tahlil untuk malam kedua baru sahaja selesai. Esok..aku harus kembali ke kuala Lumpur semula…meneruskan perjuangan yang masih belum selesai…
“Yang mati tetap mati dan tidak akan kembali,…. namun yg masih hidup tetap harus meneruskan hidup hingga kesaat akhir nafas ini berhenti….”
Al – Fatihah buat Hajjah Aminah bte Haji Abdul Rahman…. Al-Fatihah…………
- misterkilroy - 11.45pm - Sunday, 26th Jun 2005
Sunday, June 26, 2005
Wednesday, June 22, 2005
Interviewee & Interviewer..
Holla...
I've been idling for a while..thinking where should i start? Sorry for not updating my blog accordingly as i have a lots of activities plus tones of works need to be settle by last week. Finally, it is almost done, the handover process that i've been carried out for the past few weeks reach the end. Just there's one more thing left and i'm looking forward to complete it by this week or next week...:)
Hmmpphh.. Last week also was the most tiring week i ever had in my life. Though some of the activities really makes me tired but i enjoyed every single thing i've done last week. It's really fun and i think i should try to join other competition in future.. but b4 that i need to take a swim lesson first ..hehehe...
Ok..nak citer pesal apa ehh? Let me segregate the stories first. Where shud i start uhh?
1. Interview
2. Score Explorace
3. Invitation to an interview
4. Blind date ( Hmm...)
5. Vampire a.k.a Pontianak a.k.a Banshee???
Interview
I've been invited to an interview last week. Now, i just hope that i shall success on that interview. So, i can get out from here..Hehe..
To those who're in TM, they might know about the GEMS project all about. I've been interviewed by the PD and PM of the project. Gile tak ingat punye takut mase tuh, tapi bila masuk jek dlm bilik tuh...it takes not more than 10- 12 minutes pun...hahaha
Lepas interview, straight balik rumah sbb malas nak masuk office semula......nak tempuh traffic jam plus tinggal 1 jam setengah jek lagi..mmg tak berbaloi kot kalau balik office kot...so malas nak rajin2 sgt skang ni.. hehe... :P
Score explorace
This was organized by my company's sport club. Their intention was :
- To foster closer relationship among employees
- To create a healthy workforce by providing the right activities for employees to keep themselves physically and mentally challenged.
- To promote recreation and to boost employees' morale.
- Platform to promote and encourage employees' participation in recreation activities as well as developing a healthy and balance worklife in a harmonious environment
- and the list goes on and on.. bla..bla..bla.. :P
But for me, the objectives are just a crap!! For me it's all about having fun actually after stuck with tones of workload at the office and this is the chance for me to release any unsatisfaction feeling or headache with my works thru sports activity...this is the way i relief my pressure of my hectic works life!!... i feel refresh and recharge afterthat tho sakit2 la jugak badan ni lepas balik aritu...but it's really great and wonderful experience!!....hahaha.
Oh ye..lupa nak criter..we have this score explorace at Bukit Cerakah, Shah Alam. Satu bukit cerakah we have to round in order to complete all the task given. To those have been to bukit cerakah, they should know how "spacey" the area is..hehehe and cud u imagine that we only be given two and half hours to complete all the task. Siap ade swimming2 dlm kolam, commando crawling, and etc..etc..
Though we need to run from one check point to another checkpoint but most of the time i just walk ..hahaha.....Mana larat beb nak constant running. Dah ler takde training, takde apa..terus jek masuk competition..hahaha..Kan kerja giler namanye tuh...Some participants sampai cramp kaki pun ade... kesian because once u're unable to move or continue the journey,u need to get the marshal help and you're disqualified from the competition. Rules still rules..So sorry dude!
BTW, to those yg penah masuk orienteering, this competition some sort of like orienteering gak, cuma it's not using any compass. But i do prefer orienteering much more than this because orienteering much more challenging dari yg nih sbb korang kna carik ur own direction sendri. Baru la thrill sket...
I guess u guys always watched the explorace kat TV3 rite? Nampak mcm seronok gitu, tapi when u're given a task and challenge to complete. Then u know betapa azabbbbb nye nak abiskan satu2 task. And im really respect and salute to those people yg masuk explorace tuh. It's not easy my dear.. seriously...its tough and it is not that easy... :) dare to try?? explorace season 3 nak start..apa lagi..gi la register..*wink*
Invitation to an interview(next week)
I'm quite surprise when i got back from explorace last saturday. While checking my mailbox, there' s one mail written " Panggilan Untuk Temuduga" and it's for ME!!!..woohoo!!!....and It's from SPA by the way.. BUT i never expect any kind of letter dlm waktu sekarang ni..plus i just get to know a few weeks back, i'm not in the list of the succesful candidates who're success in the PTD assessment last month( i guess...hmmmphh....) But, what the heck!!
I remembered, i didnt apply for any post at SPA again. Ni surat apa yg mai plak kali nih..what position ler plaknye...mcm2 benda bermain dlm kepala otak aku aritu... Nak kater position peg.sistem maklumat...aku baru plan nak apply next year..hahah... takkan mcm paham2 jek kot spa ni...hahaha...budus!! banyak berimaginasi betul... :P
Well, when im opened the envelope, it says that.. "Tahniah, anda dipelawa untuk menghadirkan diri untuk temuduga ..bla...bla...bla.." ... Hahaha...Mcm tak pecaya jek!! It's a PTD interview guys...woohoo!!! So here it goes, another stories in my life...:D
Blind date ?? ( Hmmm..)
Believe it or not.. i'm going for a blind date ...woo hoo!!!....hahaha..silly!!!!! a friend of mine yg beriya-iya sgt nak i meet this girl.. phew!! frankly, it's been a long time since i went out for a so called "date" . So, agak2 dah lost of touch lah jugak ..caner ehh? how to brush up my skills nihhh...any tips?? or any opinions??? hehehe..
Btw, i dun mind to make a new friend and it's nothing wrong making a new friend..
for me, if there's chemistry between both of us....let its lead the way it should be...takyah nak pening2 kepala ye tak? ;) Hehehe..
well, i think i'm not gonna to tell anything much about it.. because it's too soon to tell... wait till my next extry if i still remember to story or willing to story about it later...hahaha..
Vampire aka Pontianak
Baru2 ni kitaorg dikejutkan dgn kisah "ehem-ehem"...it's just happened a few days back sekitar kawasan perumahan aku. If i'm not mistaken, it happened on last Sunday night.. Macam2 cerita aku dah dengar and most of them quite similar.. btw, i believe makhluk2 ni memang wujud, dia pun makhluk ciptaan Tuhan gak.....cuma i've never been in that experience before and i'll always pray and hope agar aku dijauhkan dari perkara-perkara sebegitu...kalau boleh mmg taknak alami langsung..selisihhhhh laaa!!! Takmooo.....Takmoooo...
Sekarang kalau balik rumah jek terasa berdiri gak bulu roma ni, tak tau kenapa...sblom nih aku slamber jek dok rumah sorang2..tapi skang..kalau dok sorang2 rase semacam jek... Mcm semalam, aku antara org terawal sampai rumah...masuk2 rumah mmg gelap gelita...so aku tawakal jek masuk and guess what.... at the end, habis satu rumah aku bukak lampu terang benderang plus aku bukak TV kuat-kuat...hehehe
Niat dihati bukan nak menakutkan sesiapa atau impress sesiapa mahupun burukkan sesiapa...tapi kejadian tuh ade gak hikmahnya sedikit sebanyak...Kenapa aku ckp camtu??? Mesti korang pelik kan?? Hmm.. Bagi aku, disebabkan kejadian itu gak, i cud see some ppl change.....and hopefully it change forever la... kalau dulu ade yg malas2 nak solat..but now, ade yg start solat and baca yassin..is that good ehh?? dan aku bersyukur sedikit sebanyak ia akan memberikan sedikit "cahaya" kepada rumah yg aku diami skang ni....
Walau apa pun yg telah atau bakal berlaku, semua yg berlaku itu atas ketentuan Allah swt...Sebagai hamba Nya, kita hanya mampu berdoa supaya dihindari dr gangguan iblis dan syaitan ini.... Wallahualam... :)
p/s: Sorry i have to mix up with malay words this round, if u're not understand my wording, try to refer to the dictionary malay-english for dummy on the right link under Kilroy Fav Spot section.Hope it'll help a lil' bit... :)
Cheers!!
I've been idling for a while..thinking where should i start? Sorry for not updating my blog accordingly as i have a lots of activities plus tones of works need to be settle by last week. Finally, it is almost done, the handover process that i've been carried out for the past few weeks reach the end. Just there's one more thing left and i'm looking forward to complete it by this week or next week...:)
Hmmpphh.. Last week also was the most tiring week i ever had in my life. Though some of the activities really makes me tired but i enjoyed every single thing i've done last week. It's really fun and i think i should try to join other competition in future.. but b4 that i need to take a swim lesson first ..hehehe...
Ok..nak citer pesal apa ehh? Let me segregate the stories first. Where shud i start uhh?
1. Interview
2. Score Explorace
3. Invitation to an interview
4. Blind date ( Hmm...)
5. Vampire a.k.a Pontianak a.k.a Banshee???
Interview
I've been invited to an interview last week. Now, i just hope that i shall success on that interview. So, i can get out from here..Hehe..
To those who're in TM, they might know about the GEMS project all about. I've been interviewed by the PD and PM of the project. Gile tak ingat punye takut mase tuh, tapi bila masuk jek dlm bilik tuh...it takes not more than 10- 12 minutes pun...hahaha
Lepas interview, straight balik rumah sbb malas nak masuk office semula......nak tempuh traffic jam plus tinggal 1 jam setengah jek lagi..mmg tak berbaloi kot kalau balik office kot...so malas nak rajin2 sgt skang ni.. hehe... :P
Score explorace
This was organized by my company's sport club. Their intention was :
- To foster closer relationship among employees
- To create a healthy workforce by providing the right activities for employees to keep themselves physically and mentally challenged.
- To promote recreation and to boost employees' morale.
- Platform to promote and encourage employees' participation in recreation activities as well as developing a healthy and balance worklife in a harmonious environment
- and the list goes on and on.. bla..bla..bla.. :P
But for me, the objectives are just a crap!! For me it's all about having fun actually after stuck with tones of workload at the office and this is the chance for me to release any unsatisfaction feeling or headache with my works thru sports activity...this is the way i relief my pressure of my hectic works life!!... i feel refresh and recharge afterthat tho sakit2 la jugak badan ni lepas balik aritu...but it's really great and wonderful experience!!....hahaha.
Oh ye..lupa nak criter..we have this score explorace at Bukit Cerakah, Shah Alam. Satu bukit cerakah we have to round in order to complete all the task given. To those have been to bukit cerakah, they should know how "spacey" the area is..hehehe and cud u imagine that we only be given two and half hours to complete all the task. Siap ade swimming2 dlm kolam, commando crawling, and etc..etc..
Though we need to run from one check point to another checkpoint but most of the time i just walk ..hahaha.....Mana larat beb nak constant running. Dah ler takde training, takde apa..terus jek masuk competition..hahaha..Kan kerja giler namanye tuh...Some participants sampai cramp kaki pun ade... kesian because once u're unable to move or continue the journey,u need to get the marshal help and you're disqualified from the competition. Rules still rules..So sorry dude!
BTW, to those yg penah masuk orienteering, this competition some sort of like orienteering gak, cuma it's not using any compass. But i do prefer orienteering much more than this because orienteering much more challenging dari yg nih sbb korang kna carik ur own direction sendri. Baru la thrill sket...
I guess u guys always watched the explorace kat TV3 rite? Nampak mcm seronok gitu, tapi when u're given a task and challenge to complete. Then u know betapa azabbbbb nye nak abiskan satu2 task. And im really respect and salute to those people yg masuk explorace tuh. It's not easy my dear.. seriously...its tough and it is not that easy... :) dare to try?? explorace season 3 nak start..apa lagi..gi la register..*wink*
Invitation to an interview(next week)
I'm quite surprise when i got back from explorace last saturday. While checking my mailbox, there' s one mail written " Panggilan Untuk Temuduga" and it's for ME!!!..woohoo!!!....and It's from SPA by the way.. BUT i never expect any kind of letter dlm waktu sekarang ni..plus i just get to know a few weeks back, i'm not in the list of the succesful candidates who're success in the PTD assessment last month( i guess...hmmmphh....) But, what the heck!!
I remembered, i didnt apply for any post at SPA again. Ni surat apa yg mai plak kali nih..what position ler plaknye...mcm2 benda bermain dlm kepala otak aku aritu... Nak kater position peg.sistem maklumat...aku baru plan nak apply next year..hahah... takkan mcm paham2 jek kot spa ni...hahaha...budus!! banyak berimaginasi betul... :P
Well, when im opened the envelope, it says that.. "Tahniah, anda dipelawa untuk menghadirkan diri untuk temuduga ..bla...bla...bla.." ... Hahaha...Mcm tak pecaya jek!! It's a PTD interview guys...woohoo!!! So here it goes, another stories in my life...:D
Blind date ?? ( Hmmm..)
Believe it or not.. i'm going for a blind date ...woo hoo!!!....hahaha..silly!!!!! a friend of mine yg beriya-iya sgt nak i meet this girl.. phew!! frankly, it's been a long time since i went out for a so called "date" . So, agak2 dah lost of touch lah jugak ..caner ehh? how to brush up my skills nihhh...any tips?? or any opinions??? hehehe..
Btw, i dun mind to make a new friend and it's nothing wrong making a new friend..
for me, if there's chemistry between both of us....let its lead the way it should be...takyah nak pening2 kepala ye tak? ;) Hehehe..
well, i think i'm not gonna to tell anything much about it.. because it's too soon to tell... wait till my next extry if i still remember to story or willing to story about it later...hahaha..
Vampire aka Pontianak
Baru2 ni kitaorg dikejutkan dgn kisah "ehem-ehem"...it's just happened a few days back sekitar kawasan perumahan aku. If i'm not mistaken, it happened on last Sunday night.. Macam2 cerita aku dah dengar and most of them quite similar.. btw, i believe makhluk2 ni memang wujud, dia pun makhluk ciptaan Tuhan gak.....cuma i've never been in that experience before and i'll always pray and hope agar aku dijauhkan dari perkara-perkara sebegitu...kalau boleh mmg taknak alami langsung..selisihhhhh laaa!!! Takmooo.....Takmoooo...
Sekarang kalau balik rumah jek terasa berdiri gak bulu roma ni, tak tau kenapa...sblom nih aku slamber jek dok rumah sorang2..tapi skang..kalau dok sorang2 rase semacam jek... Mcm semalam, aku antara org terawal sampai rumah...masuk2 rumah mmg gelap gelita...so aku tawakal jek masuk and guess what.... at the end, habis satu rumah aku bukak lampu terang benderang plus aku bukak TV kuat-kuat...hehehe
Niat dihati bukan nak menakutkan sesiapa atau impress sesiapa mahupun burukkan sesiapa...tapi kejadian tuh ade gak hikmahnya sedikit sebanyak...Kenapa aku ckp camtu??? Mesti korang pelik kan?? Hmm.. Bagi aku, disebabkan kejadian itu gak, i cud see some ppl change.....and hopefully it change forever la... kalau dulu ade yg malas2 nak solat..but now, ade yg start solat and baca yassin..is that good ehh?? dan aku bersyukur sedikit sebanyak ia akan memberikan sedikit "cahaya" kepada rumah yg aku diami skang ni....
Walau apa pun yg telah atau bakal berlaku, semua yg berlaku itu atas ketentuan Allah swt...Sebagai hamba Nya, kita hanya mampu berdoa supaya dihindari dr gangguan iblis dan syaitan ini.... Wallahualam... :)
p/s: Sorry i have to mix up with malay words this round, if u're not understand my wording, try to refer to the dictionary malay-english for dummy on the right link under Kilroy Fav Spot section.Hope it'll help a lil' bit... :)
Cheers!!
Tuesday, June 21, 2005
Mari Mengulangkaji..
::21-06-05::
Got this stuff from a friend's blog.. kinda kewl!! :) Saje jek utk suka2 mengisi masa terluang korang.....hahaha... :P
Berikut disenaraikan kajian mengenai hubungan kasih sayang individu mengikut bulan kelahiran.
September
• Bersopan dalam hubungan
comment: betuiiii...betuiiiii ....saya adalah seorg budak yg sopan......hahahaha... ops! excuse me... :x
• Bertolak ansur terhadap pasangan
comment: hmm..pada yang tauuuuuuuuuu takpe...tapi pada yg takkk tauuuuuu tuh ..tolong la appreciate....itu saja...
• Suka mengkritik pasangan
comment: suka tuh takde la..tapi berleter sket2 tuh ade la ......tapi utk kebaikan tak salah kan??
• Sangat prihatin terhadap pasangan
comment: maybe.. aku nih prihatin ke? prihatin = concern ? kalau prihatin betul lah tuh kot...tapi sangat prihatin tuh tak...sometimes bile malas2 buat donno jek....hehe
• Sangat sensitif dan emosi
comment: bole tahan...tapi takde la sgt sensitif....lagipun virgo mmg sensitif sket kot...:P kalau takde emosi tuh robot namanya...bukan manusia...hahaha
• Pandai memahami pasangan
comment: ye ke? kadang2 paham......kadang2 blur gak.....nobody is perfect rite?...:D biase laa hidup ni ade pasang surut...kadang2 paham..kadang2 x paham...kadang2 buat2 x paham...hehehe
• Kurang menunjukkan perasaannya terhadap pasangan
comment: haaa..yg ni aku sokong 110% ..hehe..adakalanya...somethings better left unsaid...baru thrill sket...ye tak?? haha.. x berkata sayang..tak semestinya kita tak menyayangi org tuh...just remember, action sometimes speaks louder than words...betul tak?? hehe
• Amat memilih pasangan
comment: semua org nak yg terbaik utk diri msg2...tapi aku takde lah sampai "AMAT" memilih ok?? :P as long as the chemistry is there...nothing is impossible.... hahaha..x menjawab soklan sungguh!!! :D
• Sukar melupakan sekiranya hati terluka.
comment: Hmm..ade betulnya kot.. luka sudah pastinya meninggalkan parut.. dan parut tuh akan kekal sampai ke hujung nyawa... tapi aku bukanlah seorang pendendam mcm sesetengah org...
• Mudah simpati dengan perasaan dan masalah pasangan.
comment: silap ayat dia ni...ayat yg betul ialah "concern" ...hehehe.. ye lah...kalau dah sayang musti lah concern...:P
• Pasangan Ideal: Lahir dalam bulan 3, 6, 8 atau 11
comment: No comment!! :P
Untuk lebih lanjut, lawatilah laman yang tertera dibawah :D
Courtesy of : http://ellecunz.blogspot.com and http://shakderaman.blogdrive.com
Got this stuff from a friend's blog.. kinda kewl!! :) Saje jek utk suka2 mengisi masa terluang korang.....hahaha... :P
Berikut disenaraikan kajian mengenai hubungan kasih sayang individu mengikut bulan kelahiran.
September
• Bersopan dalam hubungan
comment: betuiiii...betuiiiii ....saya adalah seorg budak yg sopan......hahahaha... ops! excuse me... :x
• Bertolak ansur terhadap pasangan
comment: hmm..pada yang tauuuuuuuuuu takpe...tapi pada yg takkk tauuuuuu tuh ..tolong la appreciate....itu saja...
• Suka mengkritik pasangan
comment: suka tuh takde la..tapi berleter sket2 tuh ade la ......tapi utk kebaikan tak salah kan??
• Sangat prihatin terhadap pasangan
comment: maybe.. aku nih prihatin ke? prihatin = concern ? kalau prihatin betul lah tuh kot...tapi sangat prihatin tuh tak...sometimes bile malas2 buat donno jek....hehe
• Sangat sensitif dan emosi
comment: bole tahan...tapi takde la sgt sensitif....lagipun virgo mmg sensitif sket kot...:P kalau takde emosi tuh robot namanya...bukan manusia...hahaha
• Pandai memahami pasangan
comment: ye ke? kadang2 paham......kadang2 blur gak.....nobody is perfect rite?...:D biase laa hidup ni ade pasang surut...kadang2 paham..kadang2 x paham...kadang2 buat2 x paham...hehehe
• Kurang menunjukkan perasaannya terhadap pasangan
comment: haaa..yg ni aku sokong 110% ..hehe..adakalanya...somethings better left unsaid...baru thrill sket...ye tak?? haha.. x berkata sayang..tak semestinya kita tak menyayangi org tuh...just remember, action sometimes speaks louder than words...betul tak?? hehe
• Amat memilih pasangan
comment: semua org nak yg terbaik utk diri msg2...tapi aku takde lah sampai "AMAT" memilih ok?? :P as long as the chemistry is there...nothing is impossible.... hahaha..x menjawab soklan sungguh!!! :D
• Sukar melupakan sekiranya hati terluka.
comment: Hmm..ade betulnya kot.. luka sudah pastinya meninggalkan parut.. dan parut tuh akan kekal sampai ke hujung nyawa... tapi aku bukanlah seorang pendendam mcm sesetengah org...
• Mudah simpati dengan perasaan dan masalah pasangan.
comment: silap ayat dia ni...ayat yg betul ialah "concern" ...hehehe.. ye lah...kalau dah sayang musti lah concern...:P
• Pasangan Ideal: Lahir dalam bulan 3, 6, 8 atau 11
comment: No comment!! :P
Untuk lebih lanjut, lawatilah laman yang tertera dibawah :D
Courtesy of : http://ellecunz.blogspot.com and http://shakderaman.blogdrive.com
Friday, June 17, 2005
Friendship..
::17-06-05::
To all my dear friends out there..
I have a picture that sits on my desktop at work. When the day gets long, or my boss/clients get impatient, I remember to take a moment and look at the photo. It is a picture of my best friends taken years ago. It reminds me of the good times we have shared and the support that their friendship still gives me today.
Even though our lives have gone in different directions, the bond we created has kept us close. Rare is the week that I don’t get a sms on my cell phone from one of them “just checking in” or a letter in the mailbox with the latest and updates news. Frequently I get e-mail messages with a joke for the day or words of comfort for something going on in my life. My friends have shown up for surprise visit to my office, sent sms just to say hello for no reason, and one of them even bought me a present on my birthday even though i'm not expecting anything from them on my birthday,only just a little thought on my birthday should be fine and i'm really blessed for that.
Our friendship has carried me through a lot of difficult experiences, and has enriched the good ones. It is the kind of friendship that outlasts disagreements, changes, and separation. Which reminds me, I have a few e-mails to answer.
BTW, just a few quotes of friendship i wanna share today where i found it through the internet last few weeks i guess..... It's really kewl and mesmerize.... So sit back guys and enjoy!! ;)
Cheers!
"Friendship with oneself is all important, because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else in the world." - Author: (Anna) Eleanor Roosevelt (1884-1962), American diplomat, writer, US First Lady
"Friendship is love with understanding." -Author: Ancient Proverb
"With clothes the new are best, with friends the old are best" - Author: Anonymous
"True friendship is like sound health, the value of it is seldom known until it be lost." - Author: Charles Caleb Colton (1780-1832), Writer, author
"Some of the most rewarding and beautiful moments of a friendship happen in the unforeseen open spaces between planned activities. It is important that you allow these spaces to exist." - Author: Christine Leefeldt
"A true friend is one who overlooks your failures and tolerates your successes."- Author: Doug Larson
" When a friend is in trouble, don't annoy him by asking if there is anything you can do. Think up something appropriate and do it." - Author: E. W. Howe
"A friend is one who knows us, but loves us anyway." - Author: Fr. Jerome Cummings
"Once in a while you meet someone, and soon you both discover the two of you are truly something special to each other... you share your thoughts and feelings so relaxed, so openly, and right away you know your friendship's truly meant to be." - Author: Gary Harrington
" Friendship is the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words." - Author: George Eliot (1819-80), [Mary Ann Evans] British writer
"The language of friendship is not words but meanings."-Author: Henry David Thoreau (1817-62), American writer, author, naturalist, "Civil Disobedience" "Walden"
"Friendships begin because, even without words, we understand how someone feels." - Author: Joan Walsh Anglund (b. 1926), American children's author, illustrator
" One of the most beautiful qualities of true friendship is to understand and to be understood." - Author: Lucius Annaeus Seneca (4BC?-AD 65), [The Younger] Roman Stoic philosopher, writer, tutor
"One of the surest evidences of friendship that one individual can display to another is telling him gently of a fault. If any other can excel it, it is listening to such a disclosure with gratitude, and amending the error."-Author: Edward Bulwer-Lytton
"The friendship between a man and a woman which does not lead to marriage or desire for marriage may be a life long experience of the greatest value to themselves and to all their circle of acquaintance and of activity; but for this type of friendship both a rare man and a rare woman are needed. Perhaps it should be added that either the man or the woman thus deeply bound in lifelong friendship who seeks marriage must find a still rarer man or woman to wed, to make such a three cornered comradeship a permanent success." - Author: Anna Garlin Spencer
"The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention…. A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words. " - Author: Rachel Naomi Remen
"Friends are born, not made." - Author: Henry Adams
To all my dear friends out there..
I have a picture that sits on my desktop at work. When the day gets long, or my boss/clients get impatient, I remember to take a moment and look at the photo. It is a picture of my best friends taken years ago. It reminds me of the good times we have shared and the support that their friendship still gives me today.
Even though our lives have gone in different directions, the bond we created has kept us close. Rare is the week that I don’t get a sms on my cell phone from one of them “just checking in” or a letter in the mailbox with the latest and updates news. Frequently I get e-mail messages with a joke for the day or words of comfort for something going on in my life. My friends have shown up for surprise visit to my office, sent sms just to say hello for no reason, and one of them even bought me a present on my birthday even though i'm not expecting anything from them on my birthday,only just a little thought on my birthday should be fine and i'm really blessed for that.
Our friendship has carried me through a lot of difficult experiences, and has enriched the good ones. It is the kind of friendship that outlasts disagreements, changes, and separation. Which reminds me, I have a few e-mails to answer.
BTW, just a few quotes of friendship i wanna share today where i found it through the internet last few weeks i guess..... It's really kewl and mesmerize.... So sit back guys and enjoy!! ;)
Cheers!
"Friendship with oneself is all important, because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else in the world." - Author: (Anna) Eleanor Roosevelt (1884-1962), American diplomat, writer, US First Lady
"Friendship is love with understanding." -Author: Ancient Proverb
"With clothes the new are best, with friends the old are best" - Author: Anonymous
"True friendship is like sound health, the value of it is seldom known until it be lost." - Author: Charles Caleb Colton (1780-1832), Writer, author
"Some of the most rewarding and beautiful moments of a friendship happen in the unforeseen open spaces between planned activities. It is important that you allow these spaces to exist." - Author: Christine Leefeldt
"A true friend is one who overlooks your failures and tolerates your successes."- Author: Doug Larson
" When a friend is in trouble, don't annoy him by asking if there is anything you can do. Think up something appropriate and do it." - Author: E. W. Howe
"A friend is one who knows us, but loves us anyway." - Author: Fr. Jerome Cummings
"Once in a while you meet someone, and soon you both discover the two of you are truly something special to each other... you share your thoughts and feelings so relaxed, so openly, and right away you know your friendship's truly meant to be." - Author: Gary Harrington
" Friendship is the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words." - Author: George Eliot (1819-80), [Mary Ann Evans] British writer
"The language of friendship is not words but meanings."-Author: Henry David Thoreau (1817-62), American writer, author, naturalist, "Civil Disobedience" "Walden"
"Friendships begin because, even without words, we understand how someone feels." - Author: Joan Walsh Anglund (b. 1926), American children's author, illustrator
" One of the most beautiful qualities of true friendship is to understand and to be understood." - Author: Lucius Annaeus Seneca (4BC?-AD 65), [The Younger] Roman Stoic philosopher, writer, tutor
"One of the surest evidences of friendship that one individual can display to another is telling him gently of a fault. If any other can excel it, it is listening to such a disclosure with gratitude, and amending the error."-Author: Edward Bulwer-Lytton
"The friendship between a man and a woman which does not lead to marriage or desire for marriage may be a life long experience of the greatest value to themselves and to all their circle of acquaintance and of activity; but for this type of friendship both a rare man and a rare woman are needed. Perhaps it should be added that either the man or the woman thus deeply bound in lifelong friendship who seeks marriage must find a still rarer man or woman to wed, to make such a three cornered comradeship a permanent success." - Author: Anna Garlin Spencer
"The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention…. A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words. " - Author: Rachel Naomi Remen
Thursday, June 16, 2005
Lets puzzling..
Sorry guys for not updating this blog..
Tied up with some office works lately.. dunt worry, i shall update it later...
Mean while.. if u're bored..try play this puzzle ok! hehe.. at least there's somethin u can play around..:D
got from a friend's blog - Thanx Yna... ;)
Tied up with some office works lately.. dunt worry, i shall update it later...
Mean while.. if u're bored..try play this puzzle ok! hehe.. at least there's somethin u can play around..:D
got from a friend's blog - Thanx Yna... ;)
Tuesday, June 7, 2005
Somethings are better left unsaid..
::07-06-05::
To split or not to split; that is the question when a relationship hits the rocks. How do we decide when to talk and when to walk? And if we walk, how do we deal with the inevitable heartache down that road to singledom? These all the question keeps on playing in our mind when it comes to the end of a relationship..
One of the hardest things about breaking up is missing the other person’s company, the insightful opinions and so forth. Well it’s still possible to be friends with your ex unless of course if he or she was totally sucks!!
But what i'm gonna say after this is not about relationship or something related to love nor feelings or etc etc........because i'm not dr.Love... Hehehe..:P
I just wanna share a thought with u guys based on my experienced.....whenever you broke up.....keep details of the breakup private.. and i think it should be that way and works that way... i'm not saying that u can't story to others or someone else so that u can feel relief....no one can't stopping you to say anything you want to others BUT... It is better keep it by yourself...
Yeah..why am i telling ya to keep it private?? Most of the times we need to talk about it after we broke up rite?? My advise is even if we do, find friends that you can really trust or you may keep the details to the minimum if you really wanna talk about it.
It is also alright if you don’t want to talk about it...and i think that is the right choice you've made... What happened in the relationship is between the two of you and you don’t have to disclose it to other people... If word spreads sometimes, it will make things more complicated or humiliate someone or yourself if it was being misintepreted by others... so it is better if we keep it by ourself aite!
I think thats all for today.. Till then..
Cheers!
To split or not to split; that is the question when a relationship hits the rocks. How do we decide when to talk and when to walk? And if we walk, how do we deal with the inevitable heartache down that road to singledom? These all the question keeps on playing in our mind when it comes to the end of a relationship..
One of the hardest things about breaking up is missing the other person’s company, the insightful opinions and so forth. Well it’s still possible to be friends with your ex unless of course if he or she was totally sucks!!
But what i'm gonna say after this is not about relationship or something related to love nor feelings or etc etc........because i'm not dr.Love... Hehehe..:P
I just wanna share a thought with u guys based on my experienced.....whenever you broke up.....keep details of the breakup private.. and i think it should be that way and works that way... i'm not saying that u can't story to others or someone else so that u can feel relief....no one can't stopping you to say anything you want to others BUT... It is better keep it by yourself...
Yeah..why am i telling ya to keep it private?? Most of the times we need to talk about it after we broke up rite?? My advise is even if we do, find friends that you can really trust or you may keep the details to the minimum if you really wanna talk about it.
It is also alright if you don’t want to talk about it...and i think that is the right choice you've made... What happened in the relationship is between the two of you and you don’t have to disclose it to other people... If word spreads sometimes, it will make things more complicated or humiliate someone or yourself if it was being misintepreted by others... so it is better if we keep it by ourself aite!
I think thats all for today.. Till then..
Cheers!
Friday, June 3, 2005
Can girls and boys be "friends"? Just friends??..
::03-06-05::
Hollaaaa....:D
Actually, I got some problem with one of my server this morning... Don't know what's going wrong.. So while waiting for the problem to be resolve..i've been thinking..why not i'm posting something on my blog today... brilliant!!!!! hahah... Tu laaa...don't ask me to update/write on this blog again next time......i'm totally addicted to it now...so padan la muka korang kena baca lagi my latest entry.......phew!!! :D
Can girls and boys be "friends"? Just friends? That's the question u need to ask yourself now ...hehe...Girls or women or wanita or perempuan.. …they all mean the same to a certain extend. Then, there are some who are suitable to be, just friends with... I call them the buddy type. They shop, gossip and watch movies with you...To some extend, we talk about our girl with them and they would totally listen and comment accordingly. I'm sure you have some girl friends like that rite?
It's cool to have girl or women as your best buddies simply because they have a whole different perceptive of everything. Not to say that male friends are not cool - don't get me wrong. It's just that sometimes women rationalize and look at things from a different angle. It's good to look at things from both side of the coin, isn't it? Plus, it's logical to get advice about women from a girl. It's rather refreshing sometimes...hehe ..if u never try it, i'm suggesting you to try it once....hehe..but dont got me wrong...i'm not promoting yeh!! kang nanti..kembang2 plak kawan "pompuan" kita kat luar tuh... ;)
If they are so cool and understanding, then how come she's just a friend?.. Pretty complicated or confuse huh?? Well....some women, we are just not attracted to "that way". No chemistry and no butterfly in your stomach feeling kind of woman. No sexual attraction and no physical tension. Funny, but I can't explain it myself...hehe
Now, here comes the type of woman who gives you all the above kind of feeling. It's the girlfriend material. How would you know? Well I always believe in a man's instincts. It's very powerful, so use it! These are the women whom you would do anything for. She makes you feel special because there is some unexplainable connection between you and her. There's love...lalalala....:D.
The major difference between a girl buddy and a girlfriend is that, girlfriends can make you feel jealous for no substantial reason. Caught her looking at another man and you would throw tantrum, but if your girl buddy does that, you would be totally supportive about it... that's one of simple example... but i'm not a kind of simply get jealous if my girlfriend looking to some other guys...just looking to other people are not so obvious i guess, unless la kalau dia clearly dok main2 mata depan kita with some other guys ker or doing something behind us ke and we have proof on it...then only we can feel un comfortable or get jealous........unfortunately, i dont have one for now...so, wut the heck!!! ...hahaha...
There is also another type, some ppl call it "The Facade" - you both are just friends but deep inside, you are actually "mad" about her but have no guts what so ever to confess. This is the toughest category. Confess and risk losing a friend? Conceal and have your heart broken every time she talks about another guys she fancies? Both ways you lose. I've experienced this kinda of things before and it's pretty messed up .. some of them i'm still keep in touch.. but some was totally silence... btw, i have no regrets...at least i feel relieved ....
If you are the bold type, I would say confess. At least you will feel relieved knowing that she knows, on top of that, the ball is now in her court. If she doesn't feel the same about you, at least you know it for sure. I strongly suggest you move on with your life after the awkward confession session. Look up, be strong and move on, guys... On the contrary, I would personally avoid this option - I'll totally chicken out... Just keep on trying dude!.. if there's chemistry between u and her... nothing is impossible.... :)
So, which type of women do you have in your life? The buddy? The girlfriend? or the facade? It's difficult to categorize them in this manner because some of them can be a mixture of almost everything, creating an unidentified hybrid. But one thing's for sure - our relationship and interaction with women is inevitable. Who and what type of friendship you wish to establish with them, is completely entirely up to you - as long as you know where to draw the line..
Cheers!!
Hollaaaa....:D
Actually, I got some problem with one of my server this morning... Don't know what's going wrong.. So while waiting for the problem to be resolve..i've been thinking..why not i'm posting something on my blog today... brilliant!!!!! hahah... Tu laaa...don't ask me to update/write on this blog again next time......i'm totally addicted to it now...so padan la muka korang kena baca lagi my latest entry.......phew!!! :D
Can girls and boys be "friends"? Just friends? That's the question u need to ask yourself now ...hehe...Girls or women or wanita or perempuan.. …they all mean the same to a certain extend. Then, there are some who are suitable to be, just friends with... I call them the buddy type. They shop, gossip and watch movies with you...To some extend, we talk about our girl with them and they would totally listen and comment accordingly. I'm sure you have some girl friends like that rite?
It's cool to have girl or women as your best buddies simply because they have a whole different perceptive of everything. Not to say that male friends are not cool - don't get me wrong. It's just that sometimes women rationalize and look at things from a different angle. It's good to look at things from both side of the coin, isn't it? Plus, it's logical to get advice about women from a girl. It's rather refreshing sometimes...hehe ..if u never try it, i'm suggesting you to try it once....hehe..but dont got me wrong...i'm not promoting yeh!! kang nanti..kembang2 plak kawan "pompuan" kita kat luar tuh... ;)
If they are so cool and understanding, then how come she's just a friend?.. Pretty complicated or confuse huh?? Well....some women, we are just not attracted to "that way". No chemistry and no butterfly in your stomach feeling kind of woman. No sexual attraction and no physical tension. Funny, but I can't explain it myself...hehe
Now, here comes the type of woman who gives you all the above kind of feeling. It's the girlfriend material. How would you know? Well I always believe in a man's instincts. It's very powerful, so use it! These are the women whom you would do anything for. She makes you feel special because there is some unexplainable connection between you and her. There's love...lalalala....:D.
The major difference between a girl buddy and a girlfriend is that, girlfriends can make you feel jealous for no substantial reason. Caught her looking at another man and you would throw tantrum, but if your girl buddy does that, you would be totally supportive about it... that's one of simple example... but i'm not a kind of simply get jealous if my girlfriend looking to some other guys...just looking to other people are not so obvious i guess, unless la kalau dia clearly dok main2 mata depan kita with some other guys ker or doing something behind us ke and we have proof on it...then only we can feel un comfortable or get jealous........unfortunately, i dont have one for now...so, wut the heck!!! ...hahaha...
There is also another type, some ppl call it "The Facade" - you both are just friends but deep inside, you are actually "mad" about her but have no guts what so ever to confess. This is the toughest category. Confess and risk losing a friend? Conceal and have your heart broken every time she talks about another guys she fancies? Both ways you lose. I've experienced this kinda of things before and it's pretty messed up .. some of them i'm still keep in touch.. but some was totally silence... btw, i have no regrets...at least i feel relieved ....
If you are the bold type, I would say confess. At least you will feel relieved knowing that she knows, on top of that, the ball is now in her court. If she doesn't feel the same about you, at least you know it for sure. I strongly suggest you move on with your life after the awkward confession session. Look up, be strong and move on, guys... On the contrary, I would personally avoid this option - I'll totally chicken out... Just keep on trying dude!.. if there's chemistry between u and her... nothing is impossible.... :)
So, which type of women do you have in your life? The buddy? The girlfriend? or the facade? It's difficult to categorize them in this manner because some of them can be a mixture of almost everything, creating an unidentified hybrid. But one thing's for sure - our relationship and interaction with women is inevitable. Who and what type of friendship you wish to establish with them, is completely entirely up to you - as long as you know where to draw the line..
Cheers!!
Wednesday, June 1, 2005
Making The First Move..
::01-06-05::
Hello ppl! i'm back again....and as per what i've been promised yesterday.. i'm gonna to ask your opinion or view on certain things rite??This is the thing that i've been mentioned to all of you yesterday... about "Making the first move.." ..woohoo!!!
In malay, we called it " Perigi Cari Timba"... :D ...but please dont get me wrong...i just wanna to know your opinion and perspective on the above said topic... no offense eh... :) tak kira lelaki mahupun wanita...i just wanna to know your view...your thinking...your perception...your perspective....if girls make the first move in todays living? so come on guys...brainstorming starts!!!!! hehehe...
Basically, its been crossing my mind while i'm updating my blog yesterday...hehe
However, before i move further, i would like to remind everybody and please bear in mind that i'm not encouraging nor provoking any kind of acts that you're gonna to do after reading my latest entry today..... whatever u're gonna to do is solely based on your judgement not by influenced by me or the writer of this blog k!..hehe.. :D
Hmmm...alrite... NOW, can u imagine that ...humm....you’ve met the boy of your dreams – he’s smart, funny, hot and not too bad looking... what should you do? Can you make the first move? Asking him out for a movie? Make the restaurant reservation? Maybe buy him roses? or etc..etc...are there limits when it comes to women’s liberation? .. So you would start to think should u make the first move or should u wait, rite??? hehe..
From my point of view, it has nothing wrong if the women making the first move. Today, a woman can open a door for a guy, pull out a chair for herself, and even pay for dinner. But living in the malay culture and malaysian-based society yg penuh nilai-nilai murni dan budaya...cececehh....*wink.... it's always not so nice if women make the first move to a guy.....some says girls can't make the first move because it's a huge turnoff — isn't it?
But the truth is, many guys — including me — aren't turned off by girls making the first move at all...depending on the art of seduction i guess...hehehe... In fact, we actually think it's a turn-on sometimes when girls making the first move...!
It's a lot of pressure, feeling like you always have to make the first move — even in a situation where it's obvious that both people dig each other. So if a girl is brave enough to act first, sometimes the guy will be grateful to her for easing that pressure...
But for some reason, I've noticed that a lot of girls are still old-fashioned when it comes to making the first move. Traditionally, if a girl and a guy are interested in each other, it's the guy who's supposed to ask the girl out on a date … right? and it's normal by the way..
Nonetheless, the lesson here applies to everyone... either its a girl or guy who's making the first move, it's really doesn't matter or bothering me.... for me, if you like somebody and know that she or he likes you, you have to realize that someone's got to take action for something to happen. So don't get caught up with ideas of who's supposed to do what — if that someone isn't you, things might never move forward sampai la bila2! so, take a deep breathe and think about it... :)
As i've been mentioned in my earlier post.. "The future depends on what we do in the present..."
so...Sign Off dude!!
Hello ppl! i'm back again....and as per what i've been promised yesterday.. i'm gonna to ask your opinion or view on certain things rite??This is the thing that i've been mentioned to all of you yesterday... about "Making the first move.." ..woohoo!!!
In malay, we called it " Perigi Cari Timba"... :D ...but please dont get me wrong...i just wanna to know your opinion and perspective on the above said topic... no offense eh... :) tak kira lelaki mahupun wanita...i just wanna to know your view...your thinking...your perception...your perspective....if girls make the first move in todays living? so come on guys...brainstorming starts!!!!! hehehe...
Basically, its been crossing my mind while i'm updating my blog yesterday...hehe
However, before i move further, i would like to remind everybody and please bear in mind that i'm not encouraging nor provoking any kind of acts that you're gonna to do after reading my latest entry today..... whatever u're gonna to do is solely based on your judgement not by influenced by me or the writer of this blog k!..hehe.. :D
Hmmm...alrite... NOW, can u imagine that ...humm....you’ve met the boy of your dreams – he’s smart, funny, hot and not too bad looking... what should you do? Can you make the first move? Asking him out for a movie? Make the restaurant reservation? Maybe buy him roses? or etc..etc...are there limits when it comes to women’s liberation? .. So you would start to think should u make the first move or should u wait, rite??? hehe..
From my point of view, it has nothing wrong if the women making the first move. Today, a woman can open a door for a guy, pull out a chair for herself, and even pay for dinner. But living in the malay culture and malaysian-based society yg penuh nilai-nilai murni dan budaya...cececehh....*wink.... it's always not so nice if women make the first move to a guy.....some says girls can't make the first move because it's a huge turnoff — isn't it?
But the truth is, many guys — including me — aren't turned off by girls making the first move at all...depending on the art of seduction i guess...hehehe... In fact, we actually think it's a turn-on sometimes when girls making the first move...!
It's a lot of pressure, feeling like you always have to make the first move — even in a situation where it's obvious that both people dig each other. So if a girl is brave enough to act first, sometimes the guy will be grateful to her for easing that pressure...
But for some reason, I've noticed that a lot of girls are still old-fashioned when it comes to making the first move. Traditionally, if a girl and a guy are interested in each other, it's the guy who's supposed to ask the girl out on a date … right? and it's normal by the way..
Nonetheless, the lesson here applies to everyone... either its a girl or guy who's making the first move, it's really doesn't matter or bothering me.... for me, if you like somebody and know that she or he likes you, you have to realize that someone's got to take action for something to happen. So don't get caught up with ideas of who's supposed to do what — if that someone isn't you, things might never move forward sampai la bila2! so, take a deep breathe and think about it... :)
As i've been mentioned in my earlier post.. "The future depends on what we do in the present..."
so...Sign Off dude!!
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