Making The First Move..

::01-06-05::

Hello ppl! i'm back again....and as per what i've been promised yesterday.. i'm gonna to ask your opinion or view on certain things rite??This is the thing that i've been mentioned to all of you yesterday... about "Making the first move.." ..woohoo!!!

In malay, we called it " Perigi Cari Timba"... :D ...but please dont get me wrong...i just wanna to know your opinion and perspective on the above said topic... no offense eh... :) tak kira lelaki mahupun wanita...i just wanna to know your view...your thinking...your perception...your perspective....if girls make the first move in todays living? so come on guys...brainstorming starts!!!!! hehehe...

Basically, its been crossing my mind while i'm updating my blog yesterday...hehe

However, before i move further, i would like to remind everybody and please bear in mind that i'm not encouraging nor provoking any kind of acts that you're gonna to do after reading my latest entry today..... whatever u're gonna to do is solely based on your judgement not by influenced by me or the writer of this blog k!..hehe.. :D

Hmmm...alrite... NOW, can u imagine that ...humm....you’ve met the boy of your dreams – he’s smart, funny, hot and not too bad looking... what should you do? Can you make the first move? Asking him out for a movie? Make the restaurant reservation? Maybe buy him roses? or etc..etc...are there limits when it comes to women’s liberation? .. So you would start to think should u make the first move or should u wait, rite??? hehe..

From my point of view, it has nothing wrong if the women making the first move. Today, a woman can open a door for a guy, pull out a chair for herself, and even pay for dinner. But living in the malay culture and malaysian-based society yg penuh nilai-nilai murni dan budaya...cececehh....*wink.... it's always not so nice if women make the first move to a guy.....some says girls can't make the first move because it's a huge turnoff — isn't it?

But the truth is, many guys — including me — aren't turned off by girls making the first move at all...depending on the art of seduction i guess...hehehe... In fact, we actually think it's a turn-on sometimes when girls making the first move...!

It's a lot of pressure, feeling like you always have to make the first move — even in a situation where it's obvious that both people dig each other. So if a girl is brave enough to act first, sometimes the guy will be grateful to her for easing that pressure...

But for some reason, I've noticed that a lot of girls are still old-fashioned when it comes to making the first move. Traditionally, if a girl and a guy are interested in each other, it's the guy who's supposed to ask the girl out on a date … right? and it's normal by the way..

Nonetheless, the lesson here applies to everyone... either its a girl or guy who's making the first move, it's really doesn't matter or bothering me.... for me, if you like somebody and know that she or he likes you, you have to realize that someone's got to take action for something to happen. So don't get caught up with ideas of who's supposed to do what — if that someone isn't you, things might never move forward sampai la bila2! so, take a deep breathe and think about it... :)

As i've been mentioned in my earlier post.. "The future depends on what we do in the present..."
so...Sign Off dude!!